Character-Chemistry-The-Only-Two-Questions-You-Need-in-Dating-0
Character-Chemistry-The-Only-Two-Questions-You-Need-in-Dating-0

Character & Chemistry: The Only Two Questions You Need in Dating

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“When you meet someone whose character and chemistry is resonant with your own, then that has the making of a really good relationship. In Phil’s book, I found that that was explained in a way that was really accessible.” – Julia Armstrong, podcaster and author of Running to Learn

Is he or she really “The One”? Many people over-analyze the question, using convoluted systems like eHarmony’s 29 dimensions or Myers-Briggs personality tests. Others over-simplify the question, using single-variable mantras like “go with your gut” or “follow your bliss”. Here’s a radical idea: 2. Just two dimensions. Character & Chemistry. That’s it. One is logical, one is intuitive. They are the yin and yang for relationships, and understanding this will change everything you thought you knew about finding “The One”.

Contents:

  • Introducing the Two Chis Principle
    • The Problem with Other Systems
    • What is Character?
    • What is Chemistry?
    • Putting it All Together
  • Scenarios
    • Should I Date Someone Who Smokes?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Has a Gambling Problem?
    • Should I Date Someone Who is an Alcoholic?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Addicted to Drugs?
    • Should I Date Someone Who I Have Deep Conversations with, but Am Not Attracted To?
    • Should I Date Someone Who I Don’t Have Deep Conversations with, but Am Attracted to?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Really Quiet?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Has a Different Religion Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Black/White/Latino/Other?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Too Kinky?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Not Kinky Enough?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Bisexual?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Has Weird/Stupid Friends?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Has Too Many Guy/Girl Friends?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Makes More Money Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Makes Less Money Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who My Friends Don’t Like?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Works With Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is with Someone Else?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is in the Mob or Involved in Crime?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Shorter Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Overweight?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Way Older Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Way Younger Than Me?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Really Messy?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Too Laid-Back?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Too Serious?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is Depressed?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is My Friend’s Ex?
    • Should I Date Someone Who I Fight with All The Time?
    • Should I Date Someone Long-Distance?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Is a Good Thing for Me Right Now, but Not Someone I See Myself Long-Term with?
    • Should I Date Someone Who Fits the Bill for the Ideal Partner, but I Don’t Quite Click with?
  • Quiz: Is He/She The One?
    • Introduction
    • Step 1 of 3: Character Assessment
    • Step 2 of 3: Identifying Chemistry
    • Step 3 of 3: Dating History
    • The Answer
  • Closing Thoughts
    • Why Did You Write This Book?
    • What If You Have a Bad Character, Who Do You Get Paired with?
    • Why Should I Listen To You?